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Actually, I wanted to blog about my opinions on a comment posted by my friend based on my pervious blog on "Leader. Leader."
However, one of my friend confronted me..
I never thought that it would be an issue to meet up with him, him handling my mission trip funding (which he had agreed to help me with) over to me..
Yet it was a big issue as there was firstly miscommunication..
Then a series of assumptions..
I guess it was also my character - too insensitive to others,
joking manner n tone, style, personality etc. that caused this big disagreement..
But I'm thankful that he was ok already..
I kept apologising like mad.. yups. HaHa.
Through this, I learn alot tOo..
Firstly to really forgive when you are angry coz the person is already appologic..
(this can be seen in his/her sincerity de.. like me keep apologising etc)
Next is to be more sensitive to others..
To me, I guess I wont be toO bother about what others think or feel after I say something
cOz I'm just entitled to what I say (freedom of speech!!) and my opinions..
Everyone of us will think differently, have different reaction..
Some might like what you do, how you say things..
While others will detest you..
Just like when Jesus died on the cross, not everyone agreed with him..
Some people even think that it's a shame, an embarressment, something silly etc.
But he did what was right, despite of all opinions..
To me, as long as I walk right, do what I am suppose to do - Punture etc.
Of course always listening and learning from others
coz I'm not perfect also..
All I can do, is to become better each day as time pass.. yups!! =)
Ps. Jimmy, if I'm able to blog it out, I'm not afriad that she will see it..
Nor any negative comment that readers will post..
This is what I think, how I feel, who I am..!!
U might not agree with me, but this is who I am..! yups.
take it or left it.. haHa.